Corinthians 11:3
3 But I want you to know that the head of everyman is Christ, the
Head of woman is man, and head of Christ is God.
Colossians 3: 18-20
18 Wives submit to your own husband as is fitting in the Lord.
19 Husbands love your wives and do not be bitter towards them
20 Children, obey your parents in all things for this is well pleasing
To the Lord.
I would like to talk to you about the ingredients of a Godly family
And the Relationships within a family because the world of today has
Forgotten about Gods perfect plan for a family. First of all we have
A father who is the provider of the family. One who takes the
Cares of the family upon his shoulder. He is the one that will go
Beyond his means to protect his family from all harm and danger.
He will stand in the gap and intercede during perilous times.
He is one who will seek Guidance and wisdom from no other but
God. God has put a charge upon his head to be the head of the family
A Christian family. The husband acts as a filter he filters out all of
The Bad and keeps the good. There is nothing that comes or goes
Own that house that the husband does not know about.
He is to see that the family has food to eat a roof over their heads
Some where for you to lay your heads at night. The family will
Only go as far as the husband will take it.
He is to love his wife unconditional the Bible say’s if a man loves
His wife he loves himself for no one ever hated his own flesh but
Nourishes and cherishes her just as the lord loved the church. You
Respect her treat her with dignity and ours being understanding and
Attentive to her needs.
Wives and Mothers of the family how many of you here today know
That beside not behind but beside every good man there is a virtues
Woman one that shows love when she is being misunderstood.she
Is a keeper a silent watchmen on the wall for her husband.
The wife is that special some one who will be submissive to her
Husband because she understands and acknowledges her husband
Leadership and responsibility under Gods perfect plan for the family
Remember husbands your wife obedience is not from intimidations
But from a humble and quiet confidence, which is the fruit and trust
Of the Lord. She is one that brings a warm and gentle spirit to her
Husband when he is weary in his soul.
She is a helpmeet. She meets her husband by fasting and
Making all her request known through her Prayer’s when he is weak
In the lord she is strong in the Lord teaching him that patients is
A virtue. She is one whose conversation is always seasoned with salt
That she may know how to answer when spoken to. She is that
Force that is behind the scene.
Children you are to honor thy mother and father so that you may
Have a Long life upon this earth and be prosperous. You are to learn
Of Your mother and father ways which are in Christ. Parents you
Are Not to due harsh yelling at your children arederiding their efforts
What I mean by that is telling your child that he is just like his
No good daddy or you just like your mother you will never be
Nothing. Words from some one in the streets is easy to get over
But when it comes from your own family it cuts like a knife.
Words are something that can not be taking back so instead of
Tarring down that child give them words of encouragement.
Remember parents that a teachable child only needs guidance
Not disciplined only a rebellious child needs discipline. So
Parents train your children in the way that they know that during
They perilous times that they may not stray away from they
Teaching.
Attitudes, the attitude that we have towards Gods is the attitude
That we should have towards our spouse and children. Parents
We can not say that we love each other and six days out of the
Week all you do is argue and fight and then come to church and act
As if everything is all right. Then you just living a lie. We say that
We love God some one that we never seen but hate to go home to
Our family and kids. We must show Godly love at all times because
The bible says that we can have every gift of the spirit but if you
Do not have Love not just a little bit but all of your work is in vain.
So when you take all of these ingredients for a family and
Put them together. Then we can say my family is lined up with
Gods will in his perfect order. Not my husbands will not my wife
Will but Gods will.
Then he will honor your family as he said in the bible but only
When you are lined with his perfect will.
Husband love your wives as Christ so loved the church do not be
Bitter to her.
Wives submit to your husband knowing that you have a humble and
God like spirit in you.
Children honor your mother and father so that you may live long
And be prosperous.
But most of all remember the order of the family that the head of
Everyman is Christ. The head of woman is man and the head of
Christ is God.
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