Thursday, December 29, 2011

Black Men Who Pray


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Great black fathers and husbands do exist. Some of them write for this website, while others you will never know. I grew up with a great father who adopted me and my brothers when we were just infants. He didn’t let the fact that we were not “blood” keep him for loving, providing for, and praying for us.My husband plays a similar role in my immediate family today. In particular, I love it when he prays for our daughter, when he lays his hands on her asthmatic chest and speaks healing into her body. I love it when he walks into her bedroom at night just to make sure she is sleeping peacefully. Or, when he drops her at school and repeats the same blessing day after day: “May God bless you.” For me, there is nothing more enduring or attractive about my husband than his faith in God and his fervent prayers for his family. I know in my heart that God hears him and that he hears from God.My husband is not unique. There are millions of black men who are praying husbands and fathers, one of which is Craig Varnado, a fellow church member and Facebook friend. About a week ago, Craig posted a happy birthday message to his daughter. But this wasn’t the “traditional” Facebook birthday greeting. It was a prayer. Check it out:
Happy Birthday to my daughter Christen who just turned 1 year-old. Here is my prayer for her:Lord, thank you for bringing this little girl into our lives. Thank you for one year of life. There are many babies that didn’t make it one day, one week, or one month, but we are blessed that she has been here for one year in perfect health. I pray that she continues to grow and flourish in everything that she does with her life. Please remove anything that is negative from her life in the present and in the future. Any negative stereotypes that might affect her I ask that you get rid of them RIGHT NOW. Let her know that she is Beautiful, Intelligent, and Smart, and that she doesn’t need the pressure from society to feel that way. Allow her to go about this life with her Head Up and feeling good about herself. With her brother and all her boy cousins, she has a ZONE defense to protect her, but I know you will be playing PREVENT defense and protecting her. Let her know that she “can do all things thru Christ who strengthens her.” I ask that you continue to guide her life, and whatever it is that she wants to do with her life, she seeks You first for guidance. I ask all of this in Your name……AMEN!!!!P.S. PLEASE KEEP HER OFF THE POLE!!!!!Don’t you love it when black men pray, and pray in their own way? They don’t have to use a lot of religious words or sound preachy; all they have to do is speak from the heart, be real, and believe.

Friday, December 23, 2011

A Christmas Hope-By: Cleon Ross


 
As I made my rounds during my last minute shopping for our
food baskets that our church gives out during the Christmas season, along with
gifts for the children of those families who have less than we do, I was struck
by many happy greetings that I received at each business that I entered: merry
Christmas, happy holidays, have a blessed Christmas, seasons greetings to you,
and happy Christmas.
It was just great to see people truly happy and sharing it
with others. That’s what the birth of our Savior is supposed to be. Why can’t
people of God be this joyful everyday of the year, not just at Christmas?
As I was driving home after doing my errands, I began to think
about all those people who will be sad during these holy days of Christmas.
Those people are all around us — those who are away from loved ones, service
members and their families, those who are struggling with life-threatening
illness, those who have no funds to buy gifts for those whom they love or even
those who have nothing to eat, no job or worse, no hope of finding work.
No, there is no end to the list of those who will not have a
merry Christmas.
OK, OK, I know you are saying to yourself: why, is he trying
to be such a “wet blanket” during this happy season?
I’m not at all. What I am trying to point out is Christ did
not come to earth to end suffering and pain, but to give it meaning.
Those who seek to be Christ-like listen to his words and
respond to those words. That response must include prayer and action. That
action can include calling those who we know will be alone during Christmas,
sending a card to someone who is serving in the military, sending a note to
someone who has lost a family member this past year and visiting those who are
struggling with illness. Also, giving to those who have little or nothing during
this holy time.
There are lots of ways to do that: angel trees, food baskets
and many others. Find someone who has no work and hire them to do lawn work or
paint the back steps, giving them not only a small amount of money, but hope.
When you have made the effort to make a difference in someone’s life, you will
have made those words of two thousand years ago come alive in this 2011
Christmas season. “When you have done it unto the least of mine, you have done
it unto me.”
As each of us celebrates the true meaning of Christmas, the
birth of Christ, it is my prayer that each of us will pray for hearts to turn to
the prince of peace, joy on earth, peace and goodwill. May this be our lot this
coming year. Merry Christmas and may God bless you the whole year
through!

The Psychology of Santa


A microscope. A new puppy. A mother. And absolutely, positively NO CLOTHES.
From the humorous to the heart-wrenching, children's wish lists to Santa
reveal that children aren't as toy-centric as parents think — and that they're
not as polite as perhaps they should be.
Carole
Slotterback
, a
psychology professor
at the University
of Scranton
, analyzed nearly 1,200 letters sent between 1998 and 2003 to the
central post office in Scranton,
a struggling former coal city in northeastern Pennsylvania.
The missives were scrawled or painstakingly
handwritten on every type of paper and in every shade of ink. Many were
decorated with drawings, stickers or glitter; some children gave Santa not only
their addresses but their phone numbers, parents' cell
phone
numbers and their school pictures — just to make sure the Big Guy knew
how to find them on Christmas.
Slotterback,
who describes her findings in the book "The Psychology of Santa," said the
letters "touched me in so many different ways."
"Some are just absolutely a stitch, and others are some of the saddest things
I've ever read," she said.
One kid asked to be an elf. Another made a list that included Pokemon cards,
a camera and a microscope. But about every third item, the child wrote: "NO
clothes."
And then there was the one written in careful cursive on bright pink paper,
in which Santa was asked for perhaps the greatest gift of all: a mom.
"Not just for me but my daddy, brother and granny ... my daddy works so hard
and then he comes home to cook and clean and it should be easier," the letter
read.
The child drew a 5-cent
"stamp" on the envelope before dropping it in the mailbox.
The U.S.
Postal Service
receives hundreds of thousands of letters to Santa each year,
with increases during tough economic times, said spokeswoman
Sue
Brennan
.
None of them make it to the North Pole. But some
do get responses through Operation Santa; about 500,000 letters in New York
City
alone were answered last year by individuals, companies and postal
employees, Brennan
said.
Some are funny — one asked Santa to check the appropriate box: Real or not
real? — but many more are not, she said.
"I've never gone 5 or 10 minutes without getting
teary," said Brennan.
"It's very emotional."
Children who sent letters instead of lists were
generally more polite and chatty, for instance asking about Mrs.
Claus
, Slotterback
said.
Except for the death threat. One child wrote:
"Dear Santa, I am going to kill you and steal the toys from your workshop." Slotterback
reported it to the postmaster, who agreed to contact people at the return
address, which she believes was a juvenile facility.
The letters also show kids are sensitive to
current events. In 2001, just months after the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks,
children's letters were very patriotic, Slotterback
said. Kids drew pictures of Santa's sleigh with American flags hanging off the
back, and of St. Nick putting flags in stockings; they also asked for fewer toys
that year, she found.
And there was no indication that children feared the terrorists would get
Santa, she said.
"Terrorists can do all kinds of things to our
world, and they can hurt us in many ways, but one thing they can't do is touch
Santa," said Slotterback.
"And that was nice to see."
Overall, between 3 percent and 6 percent of
letters had what Slotterback
called "family requests," such as for a sick grandmother to get better or for Mom and
Dad
to stop fighting.
She suggested parents ask to see their kids' wish
lists, because they might be surprised at what is — and what's not — on it.
Requests are often "simpler kids of things than you might think," Slotterback
said.
But she noted a surprising lack of social niceties in the correspondence,
unless the child was asking for a pet. A boy who asked for a golden retriever
used "please" 16 times, she said. The next-highest use came from a girl who
wanted a horse.
Slotterback
cited other research that found people who expect their requests to be fulfilled
— like a boss asking an employee to do something — are less likely to say
please. Perhaps likewise, she said, kids expect Santa to come through.
Still, she said, "you'd think if you were asking for a lot of presents, you
would throw in a 'please' or a 'thank you.'"
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Monday, December 19, 2011

BE STILL...

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Often when I pray the words, "Be still..." come to my mind. The ending might be different. It could be just "be still" or maybe "be still and know," or "be still and know that I am God." And sometimes, "be still and know that I love you."Be still.My younger son cannot be still. I don't mean still as in motionless; I mean still as in quiet. He doesn't talk all the time, but he is always making some kind of noise. He fills the still air with tiny noises. Be still.Do you have a compulsion to fill the air -- to fill the stillness? Do you find comfort in quiet? Or is it empty? Sometimes, when I pray, and I hear the words "be still," I don't want to obey. I want to get on with it. I'm probably praying because I have something to say, to ask, to tell. I don't want to be still. And yet, I try to obey. I try to stop talking and let the empty quiet exist. To know. To listen. To just be in the stillness.
Be still and know...

Monday, December 12, 2011

YOUR SON


From The Executive Director

During times of adversity and hardship, when the grey, thick clouds of political strife and international crises loom over us, it is natural to want to draw the curtains closed and barricade ourselves from the ugliness outside our doors. When we wonder if we will have enough money to keep a roof over our heads and food on our tables, it might be difficult to imagine that we can offer anything of value to God. Yet, it is in these seasons of spiritual winter; in these times of vulnerability and uncertainty that we offer to God the gifts he desires most.
Although our hands may be empty of resources, if our hearts are full of praise and thankfulness to Him and love expressed in generosity to His people, He is blessed beyond measure. As he found much pleasure in the poor widow's offering of a few pennies at the temple, so he finds much pleasure in our sacrificial giving of ourselves during times of hardship.
No matter what season you are experiencing in your life, as you present your heart to the Lord, may you feel the warmth of His light shine upon you and through you. May that light be a beacon to those in the darkness and may you truly be a messenger of God's greatest gift to the world, His son, Jesus Christ.
God grant you the light in Christmas, which is faith; the warmth of Christmas, which is love; the radiance of Christmas, which is purity; the righteousness of Christmas, which is justice; the belief in Christmas, which is truth; the all of Christmas, which is Christ.

From all of us at Pass-The_Ball
Rev. M.D. Rogers-Executive Director

Christmas Prayer:

Father, We thank Thee for this day.
Bless all we do and all we say.
May we each enjoy Thy blessings great
As Jesus' Birth we celebrate.
And may the love that we share here
Remain throughout the coming year.
Amen!

Saturday, December 10, 2011

The Significance of the Wise Men


How many wise men were there? We simply don’t know; we just know there was more than one but we know they brought three gifts. The passage in Matthew 2:1-11 make it clear that these Magi traveled from the east following a star [see What Was the Star of Bethlehem?] that led them to Israel.
These wise men were searching for the Christ, the promised Messiah. From the account of the wise men, they were from the “east.” This is likely the orient. The fact that men came from such a vast distance to honor the baby Jesus with gifts give a powerful testimony to the history related in Genesis and the faith of these men.
How could men that far off have known about a promised messiah? When people groups were scattered from the Tower of Babel, they went to all parts of the earth. Their descendants continued migrating until people were living on six continents (see Flood Legends)!.
The “east” was no exception. The Chinese, for instance, have records of the Genesis account and the message of Christ written in the symbols of their language. They even have records indicating that they were to sacrifice animals to the one true God who was the creator and the one who rescued man during a huge flood. Please see The Original ‘Unknown’ God of China.
This confirms that they knew much of the biblical account at some point after the Tower of Babel. While many lost this precious information in the East we know that some still retained it—the wise men. These men from the orient were no doubt wise. Unlike many of their contemporaries who had lost the history in the Bible, they knew that Jesus was coming. This confirmation of biblical history and trust in the Scriptures is a testimony of the accuracy of the biblical account and the Tower of Babel.
Many in today’s culture have also lost the true history in the Bible. They have accepted the history of “millions of years” and, just like the contemporaries of the wise men, have failed to recognize Jesus as the Messiah.

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Thursday, December 8, 2011

Twas the Night Before Christmas


Twas the Night Before Christmas
By Clement C. Moore
'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care
In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there;
The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;
And mamma in her kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled our brains for a long winter's nap,
When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.
The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below,
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer,
With a little old driver, so lively and quick,
I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,
And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name:
"Now, Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen!
On, Comet! on, Cupid! on, Donder and Blitzen!
To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!
Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!"
As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,
When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky;
So up to the house-top the coursers they flew,
With the sleigh full of Toys, and St. Nicholas too.
As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,
When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky;
So up to the house-top the coursers they flew,
With the sleigh full of Toys, and St. Nicholas too.
And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof
The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my head, and was turning around,
Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.
He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,
And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot;
A bundle of Toys he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.
His eyes--how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,
And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow;
The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,
And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath;
He had a broad face and a little round belly,
That shook when he laughed, like a bowlful of jelly.
He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,
And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself;
A wink of his eye and a twist of his head,
Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;
He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,
And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk,
And laying his finger aside of his nose,
And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose;
He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,
And away they all flew like the down
of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, ere he
drove out of sight,
"Happy Christmas to all, and to all
a good-night

Christmas in the Alley



by Olive Thorne Miller

"I declare for 'tomorrow is Christmas Day an' I clean forgot all about it," said old Ann, the washerwoman, pausing in her work and holding the flatiron suspended in the air.

"Much good it'll do us," growled a discontented voice from the coarse bed in the corner.

"We haven't much extra, to be sure," answered Ann cheerfully, bringing the iron down onto the shirt-bosom before her, "but at least we've enough to eat, and a good fire, and that's more'n some have, not a thousand miles from here either."

"We might have plenty more," said the fretful voice, "if you didn't think so much more of strangers than you do of your own folk's comfort, keeping a houseful of beggars, as if you was a lady!"

"Now, John," replied Ann, taking another iron from the fire, "you're not half so bad as you pretend. You wouldn't have me turn them poor creatures into the streets to freeze, now, would you?"

"It's none of our business to pay rent for them," grumbled John. "Every one for himself, I say, these hard times. If they can't pay you'd ought to send 'em off; there's plenty as can."

"They'd pay quick enough if they could get work," said Ann. "They're good honest fellows, every one, and paid me regular as long as they had a cent. But when hundreds are out o' work in the city, what can they do?"

"That's none o' your business, you can turn 'em out!" growled John.

"And leave the poor children to freeze as well as starve?" said Ann. "Who'd ever take 'em in without money, I'd like to know? No, John," bringing her iron down as though she meant it, "I'm glad I'm well enough to wash and iron, and pay my rent, and so long as I can do that, and keep the hunger away from you and the child, I'll never turn the poor souls out, leastways, not in this freezing winter weather."

"An' here's Christmas," the old man went on whiningly, "an' not a penny to spend, an' I needin' another blanket so bad, with my rhumatiz, an' haven't had a drop of tea for I don't know how long!"

"I know it," said Ann, never mentioning that she too had been without tea, and not only that, but with small allowance of food of any kind, "and I'm desperate sorry I can't get a bit of something for Katey. The child never missed a little something in her stocking before."

"Yes," John struck in, "much you care for your flesh an' blood. The child ha'n't had a thing this winter."

"That's true enough," said Ann, with a sigh, "an' it's the hardest thing of all that I've had to keep her out o' school when she was doing so beautiful."

"An' her feet all on the ground," growled John.

"I know her shoes is bad," said Ann, hanging the shirt up on a line that stretched across the room, and was already nearly full of freshly ironed clothes, "but they're better than the Parker children's."

"What's that to us?" almost shouted the weak old man, shaking his fist at her in his rage.

"Well, keep your temper, old man," said Ann. "I'm sorry it goes so hard with you, but as long as I can stand on my feet, I sha'n't turn anybody out to freeze, that's certain."

"How much'll you get for them?" said the miserable old man, after a few moments' silence, indicating by his hand the clean clothes on the line.

"Two dollars," said Ann, "and half of it must go to help make up next month's rent. I've got a good bit to make up yet, and only a week to do it in, and I sha'n't have another cent till day after to-morrow."

"Well, I wish you'd manage to buy me a little tea," whined the old man; "seems as if that would go right to the spot, and warm up my old bones a bit."

"I'll try," said Ann, revolving in her mind how she could save a few pennies from her indispensable purchases to get tea and sugar, for without sugar he would not touch it.

Wearied with his unusual exertion, the old man now dropped off to sleep, and Ann went softly about, folding and piling the clothes into a big basket already half full. When they were all packed in, and nicely covered with a piece of clean muslin, she took an old shawl and hood from a nail in the corner, put them on, blew out the candle, for it must not burn one moment unnecessarily, and, taking up her basket, went out into the cold winter night, softly closing the door behind her.

The house was on an alley, but as soon as she turned the corner she was in the bright streets, glittering with lamps and gay people. The shop windows were brilliant with Christmas displays, and thousands of warmly dressed buyers were lingering before them, laughing and chatting, and selecting their purchases. Surely it seemed as if there could be no want here.

As quickly as her burden would let her, the old washerwoman passed through the crowd into a broad street and rang the basement bell of a large, showy house.

"Oh, it's the washerwoman!" said a flashy-looking servant who answered the bell; "set the basket right m here. Mrs. Keithe can't look them over to-night. There's company in the parlour - Miss Carry's Christmas party."

"Ask her to please pay me - at least a part," said old Ann hastily. "I don't see how I can do without the money. I counted on it."

"I'll ask her," said the pert young woman, turning to go upstairs; "but it's no use."

Returning in a moment, she delivered the message. "She has no change to-night; you're to come in the morning."

"Dear me!" thought Ann, as she plodded back through the streets, "it'll be even worse than I expected, for there's not a morsel to eat in the house, and not a penny to buy one with. Well, well, the Lord will provide, the Good Book says, but it's mighty dark days, and it's hard to believe."

Entering the house, Ann sat down silently before the expiring fire. She was tired, her bones ached, and she was faint for want of food.

Wearily she rested her head on her hands, and tried to think of some way to get a few cents. She had nothing she could sell or pawn, everything she could do without had gone before, in similar emergencies. After sitting there some time, and revolving plan after plan, only to find them all impossible, she was forced to conclude that they must go supperless to bed.

Her husband grumbled, and Katey--who came in from a neighbour's--cried with hunger, and after they were asleep old Ann crept into bed to keep warm, more disheartened than she had been all winter.

If we could only see a little way ahead! All this time - the darkest the house on the alley had seen - help was on the way to them. A kind-hearted city missionary, visiting one of the unfortunate families living in the upper rooms of old Ann's house, had learned from them of the noble charity of the humble old washerwoman. It was more than princely charity, for she not only denied herself nearly every comfort, but she endured the reproaches of her husband, and the tears of her child.

Telling the story to a party of his friends this Christmas Eve, their hearts were troubled, and they at once emptied their purses into his hands for her. And the gift was at that very moment in the pocket of the missionary, waiting for morning to make her Christmas happy. Christmas morning broke clear and cold. Ann was up early, as usual, made her fire, with the last of her coal, cleared up her two rooms, and, leaving her husband and Katey in bed, was about starting out to try and get her money to provide a breakfast for them. At the door she met the missionary.

"Good-morning, Ann," said he. "I wish you a Merry Christmas."

"Thank you, sir," said Ann cheerfully; "the same to yourself."

"Have you been to breakfast already?" asked the missionary.

"No, sir," said Ann. "I was just going out for it."

"I haven't either," said he, "but I couldn't bear to wait until I had eaten breakfast before I brought you your Christmas present - suspect you haven't had any yet."

Ann smiled. "Indeed, sir, I haven't had one since I can remember."

"Well, I have one for you. Come in, and I'll tell you about it."

Too much amazed for words, Ann led him into the room. The missionary opened his purse, and handed her a roll of bills.

"Why - what!" she gasped, taking it mechanically.

"Some friends of mine heard of your generous treatment of the poor families upstairs," he went on, "and they send you this, with their respects and best wishes for Christmas. Do just what you please with it - it is wholly yours. No thanks," he went on, as she struggled to speak. "It's not from me. Just enjoy it - that's all. It has done them more good to give than it can you to receive," and before she could speak a word he was gone.

What did the old washerwoman do?

Well, first she fell on her knees and buried her agitated face in the bedclothes. After a while she became aware of a storm of words from her husband, and she got up, subdued as much as possible her agitation, and tried to answer his frantic questions.

"How much did he give you, old stupid?" he screamed; "can't you speak, or are you struck dumb? Wake up! I just wish I could reach you! I'd shake you till your teeth rattled!"

His vicious looks were a sign, it was evident that he only lacked the strength to be as good as his word. Ann roused herself from her stupour and spoke at last.

"I don't know. I'll count it." She unrolled the bills and began.

"O Lord!" she exclaimed excitedly, "here's ten-dollar bills! One, two, three, and a twenty-that makes five--and five are fifty-five--sixty--seventy--eighty--eighty-five--ninety--one hundred--and two and five are seven, and two and one are ten, twenty--twenty-five--one hundred and twenty-five! Why, I'm rich!" she shouted. "Bless the Lord! Oh, this is the glorious Christmas Day! I knew He'd provide. Katey! Katey!" she screamed at the door of the other room, where the child lay asleep. "Merry Christmas to you, darlin'! Now you can have some shoes! and a new dress! and--and--breakfast, and a regular Christmas dinner! Oh! I believe I shall go crazy!"

But she did not. Joy seldom hurts people, and she was brought back to everyday affairs by the querulous voice of her husband.

"Now I will have my tea, an' a new blanket, an' some tobacco--how I have wanted a pipe!" and he went on enumerating his wants while Ann bustled about, putting away most of her money, and once more getting ready to go out.

"I'll run out and get some breakfast," she said, "but don't you tell a soul about the money."

"No! they'll rob us!" shrieked the old man.

"Nonsense! I'll hide it well, but I want to keep it a secret for another reason. Mind, Katey, don't you tell?"

"No!" said Katey, with wide eyes. "But can I truly have a new frock, Mammy, and new shoes--and is it really Christmas?"

"It's really Christmas, darlin'," said Ann, "and you'll see what mammy'll bring home to you, after breakfast."

The luxurious meal of sausages, potatoes, and hot tea was soon smoking on the table, and was eagerly devoured by Katey and her father. But Ann could not eat much. She was absent-minded, and only drank a cup of tea. As soon as breakfast was over, she left Katey to wash the dishes, and started out again.

She walked slowly down the street, revolving a great plan in her mind.

"Let me see," she said to herself. "They shall have a happy day for once. I suppose John'll grumble, but the Lord has sent me this money, and I mean to use part of it to make one good day for them."

Having settled this in her mind, she walked on more quickly, and visited various shops in the neighbourhood. When at last she went home, her big basket was stuffed as full as it could hold, and she carried a bundle besides.

"Here's your tea, John," she said cheerfully, as she unpacked the basket, "a whole pound of it, and sugar, and tobacco, and a new pipe."

"Give me some now," said the old man eagerly; "don't wait to take out the rest of the things."

"And here's a new frock for you, Katey," old Ann went on, after making John happy with his treasures, "a real bright one, and a pair of shoes, and some real woollen stockings; oh! how warm you'll be!"

"Oh, how nice, Mammy!" cried Katey, jumping about. "When will you make my frock?"

"To-morrow," answered the mother, "and you can go to school again."

"Oh, goody!" she began, but her face fell. "If only Molly Parker could go too!"

"You wait and see," answered Ann, with a knowing look. "Who knows what Christmas will bring to Molly Parker?"

"Now here's a nice big roast," the happy woman went on, still unpacking, "and potatoes and turnips and cabbage and bread and butter and coffee and--"

"What in the world! You goin' to give a party?" asked the old man between the puffs, staring at her in wonder.

"I'll tell you just what I am going to do," said Ann firmly, bracing herself for opposition, "and it's as good as done, so you needn't say a word about it. I'm going to have a Christmas dinner, and I'm going to invite every blessed soul in this house to come. They shall be warm and full for once in their lives, please God! And, Katey," she went on breathlessly, before the old man had sufficiently recovered from his astonishment to speak, "go right upstairs now, and invite every one of 'em from the fathers down to Mrs. Parker's baby to come to dinner at three o'clock; we'll have to keep fashionable hours, it's so late now; and mind, Katey, not a word about the money. And hurry back, child, I want you to help me."

To her surprise, the opposition from her husband was less than she expected. The genial tobacco seemed to have quieted his nerves, and even opened his heart. Grateful for this, Ann resolved that his pipe should never lack tobacco while she could work.

But now the cares of dinner absorbed her. The meat and vegetables were prepared, the pudding made, and the long table spread, though she had to borrow every table in the house, and every dish to have enough to go around.

At three o'clock when the guests came in, it was really a very pleasant sight. The bright warm fire, the long table, covered with a substantial, and, to them, a luxurious meal, all smoking hot. John, in his neatly brushed suit, in an armchair at the foot of the table, Ann in a bustle of hurry and welcome, and a plate and a seat for every one.

How the half-starved creatures enjoyed it; how the children stuffed and the parents looked on with a happiness that was very near to tears; how old John actually smiled and urged them to send back their plates again and again, and how Ann, the washerwoman, was the life and soul of it all, I can't half tell.

After dinner, when the poor women lodgers insisted on clearing up, and the poor men sat down by the fire to smoke, for old John actually passed around his beloved tobacco, Ann quietly slipped out for a few minutes, took four large bundles from a closet under the stairs, and disappeared upstairs. She was scarcely missed before she was back again.

Well, of course it was a great day in the house on the alley, and the guests sat long into the twilight before the warm fire, talking of their old homes in the fatherland, the hard winter, and prospects for work in the spring.

When at last they returned to the chilly discomfort of their own rooms, each family found a package containing a new warm dress and pair of shoes for every woman and child in the family.

"And I have enough left,"' said Ann the washerwoman, to herself, when she was reckoning up the expenses of the day, "to buy my coal and pay my rent till spring, so I can save my old bones a bit. And sure John can't grumble at their staying now, for it's all along of keeping them that I had such a blessed Christmas day at all."

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Waiting Patiently for Santa



I've been waiting patiently for Santa Claus to come.
I don't know why he is so late; it's twenty-five past one.
I have done most everything I can to stay awake.
I've eaten all his cookies and I even licked the plate.
I have jiggled, bounced and rattled every gift beneath the tree.
I have peeked in all the packages and only opened three.
I have rearranged the ornaments and put them all down low,
So when the tree falls down again they won't have far to go.
I know what disappointment he will feel if I don't wait,
But I'm running out of things to do to try to stay awake.
I am guessing Santa just forgot to do my neighbourhood,
And here I have been trying "hard as nails" to be so good!
Next year when Santa gets my list I'll have to let him know,
If he expects to see me, he cannot be so slow.
I hope that he appreciates I cannot take the strain
Of waiting quite so patiently if he is late again

THE MAN GOD CHOSE TO RAISE HIS SON




Matt. 1:18-25
Rev. M.D. Rogers

A Dying man trying to find a family to raise his daughter. He placed her
with a Christian family because they would treat her right and show her the
right way to live. How particular do you suppose God was when He was choosing
the family that would raise Jesus? I think that God would want to find a family
that would treat the child good, that would train Him up in the way of the
Lord, that would Jesus the example that every young man needs and deserves.
Much, often too much emphasis is placed on Mary and her choice to become
the mother of Jesus. Yes, she deserves to be thanked and held in great respect,
but too often, we forget about Joseph. His example and lifestyle were very influential
in the life of the Lord Jesus. Tonight, I want to take just a few minutes to
look at the man God chose to raise His Son.
I. v. 18-19 HIS DILEMMA
(Ill. The way Joseph handled himself revealed a lot about his true
character.)
A. An Unexpected Development – Ill. The pregnancy of Mary during the
betrothal period was a serious offense. (Ill. The Betrothal period was
considered as binding as a marriage.) (Ill. How respond in a time of crisis
reveals our true nature! When things are going smoothly, we are able to hide a
lot that becomes clear in a crisis!) Joseph’s reaction reveals a man under
control! (Ill. Jesus was always in control of Himself – He probably saw this
trait in Joseph!)
B. An Uncharacteristic Deliberation – Ill. Most men would have divorced
Mary, (Ill. The procedure!) This would have left her poverty stricken and
because of the baby, no other man would have dared marry her. Ill. Joseph was
"Just" – Righteous! He wanted to do the right thing by Mary! (Joseph
and Jesus were both marked by their compassion – Ill. John 8:1-11. (Ill.
Tradition says that Joseph was a widower who was much older than Mary. If so,
this may have accounted for his patience, calmness and wisdom in the
situation.)
C. An Uncommon Decision – Ill. Joseph, by right, could have invoked the
death penalty – Deut. 22:13-21. He could have Mary stoned to death publicly.
However, he chose to spare her the shame. Again, this reveals compassion on the
part of Joseph.
II. v. 20-23 HIS DREAM
(Ill. 3 Great Truths were revealed to Joseph in his dream)
A. The Truth Of The Pregnancy Is Revealed – Joseph discovers who the real
Father is. Joseph realizes that he has been chosen to be part of a glorious
plan.
B. The Child’s Title Is Revealed – Ill. Joseph is commanded to name the
child "Jesus" – Jehovah Is Salvation! (Ill. Jesus certainly lived up
to His Name!)
C. Joseph’s Task Is Revealed – Joseph would have to live with the shame
that would be placed upon Him by others. Ill. There are several traditions
surrounding the birth of Jesus. 1.) Joseph’s son; 2.) Mary had a
secret lover; 3.) A Roman soldier raped Mary. Again, this speaks
well of Joseph, he was willing to bear this cross for the glory of God.
Certainly, Jesus learned much from watching this man suffer in silence!
III. v. 24-25 HIS DECISION
A. He Obeyed The Lord’s Commands – Obedience reveals the heart of man
like nothing else! Ill. John 14:15; 1 Sam. 15:22. When we obey the Lord’s
command, even when they are unpleasant or hard, it proves our love for Him and
reveals where our loyalty truly is.
B. He Observed Mary’s Chastity – Mary and Joseph never came together
physically until after Jesus was born, thus fulfilling the Scripture – v. 23.
This is another indication of the man’s moral standing. A lesser man would have
demanded the right of a husband. (Ill. Joseph possessed the characteristics of
his Old Testament counterpart Joseph – Gen. 39 Ill. Gen. 39:9)
C. He Obediently Named The Child – The right of naming the child was in
the hand of the Father. Joseph knew that the child’s true Father wanted the
child called Jesus. Therefore, Joseph named the child Jesus.
Conc: Joseph was chosen to be the surrogate father of Jesus because he
was pure of life and pure of heart. He was the kind of man God could use,
because God didn’t have to worry about Joseph getting in the way. In other
words, he was yielded to the will of the Lord. We ought to look at our own
lives tonight and ask ourselves, "Are we the kind of person that God could
use in a big way?" If not, then what do we need to do to get there? God
will never call another man to do what Joseph did. But, God has plenty of big
jobs left to do, He just needs the people who are willing and qualified to do
them